Sunday, April 27, 2008

MOM


My mom passed away 4 years ago this coming May 2nd. I really miss having her around to talk with and she loved the girls so much.. These Hyacinth flowers are from our backyard on Madison Ave. I took some after we sold the home and planted them in my yard. they remind me of my mom, she would check to see if the came up every spring. Even though we didn't have much landscape, we were not into that too much. In fact she use to get mad because I would mow over a lot of the flowers she had planted along the fence. I didn't really appreciate them back then. Her other favorite was lilacs, I planted a lilac bush in my back yard next to the Hyacinths after she died. the following is a copy of what Pastor Richard Alcumbrack read at my mom's church service. I added some to it also.

Funeral Service for Barbara J. Miller, Thursday, May 6, 2004 Southlawn Church of God, Wyoming, Kent, Co. Michigan. Pastor Richard Alcumbrack officiating. Welcome: We are gathered here to pay tribute to Barbara Miller. It is a sad event, yet one in which we can be encouraged in spirit, strengthened in faith, and comforted in love. I think of the prayer of the Apostle found in the book of Romans: " May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as we trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. On behalf of Mike, Nancy, Doug, Denny and all the family, I thank you for being here to lend your encouragement, and I ask you to offer this prayer for the family, that the God of hope would fill them with all joy and peace as trust in HIm, so that even in the face of their great loss they might overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit. Psalms 46 read by Pastor Alcumbrack, Pastor Alcumbrack ask those in attendance to stand and pray the Lord's prayer with him.Congregational Song #260 "In The Garden", one of her favorite songs at church.God calls Himself "the God of hope." It is not surprising that we find hope, comfort and promise in His Word.Psalms 5:1-7Psalms 8:9:7-10Psalms 16Psalms 23Psalms 33:13-22. Barbara Miller fell asleep in death this past Sunday afternoon, May 2, at the age of 73. She was preceeded in death by her husband, Stewart; her parents, Luella and Herbert Geskus, father, William DeBruyn and mother-in-law Mary Richards-Reed. Living members of the family mentioned by Pastor Alcumbrack. The family wanted to grant a time for you to minister to one another by sharing memories of Barbara, maybe a way in which she touched your life, or recollection of a meainingful event you shared. Please stand and address the audience so all can be blessed by your words. Afterwards, Ellen McClain preformed the song, "I Need You Now" by Billy Ray Cyrus. The family wrote a brief narrative of their mother's life, as a tribute to her, which I would like to read at this time.
Barbara Jean DeBruyn was born January 10, 1931 at Butterworth Hospital in Grand Rapids, Michigan to William DeBruyn and Luella Samis. Mom was their second child, four years younger than her brother, Bill. She spent her early childhood living on the SW side of Grand Rapids on Beacon St and Caulfield Ave. off Grandville Ave. with her parents and grandparents, Forrest and Jennie Samis. After the tragic death of her father when she was four, Barb's grand dad Forrest and grandma Jennie with her mother and brother moved to the Godwin Heights area, living in several different rental homes while Luella went to Beauty School. Mom's summers were spent in Jennings, Michigan, near Cadillac, with her brother and grandma Jennie. Forrest and Jennie had moved from Jennings to Grand Rapids, following thier daughter Luella after she graduated from Cadillac High School in 1925. Forrest and Jennie keep the home in Jennings though, and every summer Jennie would go back, while Forrest continued to work in Grand Rapids. Mom's summers in Jennings were spent in the woods picking berries with her grandma, which one time lead to and encounter with a small black bear, swimming in the lake, herding cows through the old abandon lumbering town of Jennings, playing softball, which she loved to do, and was good at, much like her father was, and making new friendships that would last a lifetime. About 1940, mom and Uncle Bill began attending a small neighborhood chuch at the corner of Jefferson Ave. and Abbie St. in Wyoming. For several years they would walk to the Southlawn Church of God and attend Sunday services. Mom's faith was shaped at this church, little could she have known what an important role Southlawn would play in her final years of life. Even as a child mom would faithfully turn to God in prayer with every concern, whether tivial or important. Grandma Luella reinforced mom's belief in prayer, often telling her when the old car wouldn't start, "Barbara, you pray, God answers your prayers." In 1943 grandma Luella traveled by train to Ft. Meyers, Florida, and married a longtime family friend, Herbert Geskus, who was serving in the Navy during WWII. Grandpa Herbert adopted mom and Bill as his own. Herbert had been a friend of our grandfather, Bill DeBruyn, and lived on Martha St. SW in Grand Rapids, over by where Bill and Luella lived when Barb and Bill were young. In the mid 1940's, a young man named Stew Miller from the Kelloggsville area began taking an interest in mom. Mom worked at Lameroux Drug store at 36th St and Division Ave. in Wyoming, Stew would stop for a moment and press his face against the window and watch her while she worked. Stew, spent a lot of time tearing up and down Division Ave. on his old 1941 Harley Davidson knucklehead, since he had dropped out of Kelloggsville high school. One of the first times Barb's mother and Herbert saw Stewart was on a Sunday drive, when dad came flying by their car on his Harley, mom exclaimed in excitement, "There goes Stewy Miller!" Herbert and Luella were not quite sure what to think of the rebellious, good looking young man, in his leather jacket and pompadour hair, that would become their future son-in-law. They later discovered that he would be a good and faithful husband to mom for 37 years. Dad was kind of shy, and initially brought a more outgoing friend over to meet mom for the first time when she lived in Airview St. SE in Wyoming. It wasn't long afterwards that mom and dad became a couple though. In 1948 mom graduated from Godwin Heights High School, she was an outstanding student, obtaining mostly A's and B's with one C. Mom did so well in school that she was skipped over half a grade from 8th to 9th. On October 24, 1950 Stewart and Barbara were married at the home of Pastor Lester Doerr at 719 E. Fulton St. NE in Grand Rapids. Mom and Dad's honeymoon was a ride to kalamazoo and back. Dad was drafted into the Army, and 9 days later left for Detroit, Michigan, then to Ft. Carson, Colorado Springs, Colorado. Mom took the train to Colorado Springs to be with dad. After about a year of mom traveling back and forth to Colorado by train and once bus, mom moved to Colorado Springs and lived with dad. Times were hard, and money was so short that mom on a few occasions sold her wedding ring at a pawn shop for money, and buy it back when dad was paid. Even though, mom remembered those times as some of the best of her life. Dad was discharged from the Army in November of 1952, and they came back to Grand Rapids. Dad and mom began their family in 1953 with the birth of their first child, Michael Duane, Nancy Lou was born in 1956 and Douglas Norman was born in 1957. Until 1958 mom and dad lived in few different homes in Grand Rapids, and in 1957 dad received some property on Madison Ave. and 43rd St. SE in Wyoming from his father, Herschel Miller, who passed away in 1958. They built a modest home there for about $6000, which would be home the rest of their lives. Things were getting going for the Miller family, dad bought cars, mom tried to figure out how to pay the bills, and the kids enjoyed playing with neighborhood friends. Even though money was tight, which did cause some disagreements over dad's spending habits, things were going well. In 1967 mom found herself in an unexpected situation: she was going to have a baby! Although mom was pregnant, it was not too noticeable and only a few people even knew. On Valentine's Day 1968, Dennis Stewart was born. New struggles arose: teenagers, a baby, and not much money! At the 1970's progressed and moved into the 1980's life finally began to become a little easier for a time. The house was paid off, things had settled down some, mom and dad were talking about what they would do when they retired, but then in 1985 dad was diagnosed with esophagus cancer. Again things were tough, and as usual mom relied on God and prayer to sustain her. Although she knew dad's disease was terminal, she kept this from dad and her children, always trying to protect them. Mom alone knew what was going to happen and had the strength to endure this through her faith. Although mom and dad didn't attend church, mom attempted to take Mike, Nancy and Doug to a Baptist church for a brief time when they were little, she continued to have a stong faith in God. Mom was concerned about dad's faith. Dad had never showed any interest in God, and on one ocassion when dad was sick they were over at Restlawn cemetery, visiting grandpa Herschel's grave. Mom asked dad if he believed in God,and that Jesus died for him. Dad was silent for a moment, and responded that yes, he did believe that Jesus died for him. Mom always found great comfort that dad confessed this to her. On Thursday, March 19, 1987 dad lost his battle with cancer, dying in mom's arms at the hospital. Our family was now faced with one of our most devastating events and stuggled with our loss, but mom remained strong for us. Mom never even considered another man besides dad, and never dated after dad's death. She continued to work at KMart, now switching to 3rd shift because she didn't like being home alone at night. In April 1995 after working 21 years at KMart mom retired. Only two weeks after mom retired, she was diagnosed with inoperable small cell lung cancer. Life expectancy with small cell stage four lung cancer is about 2 years. Mom was told with out any treatment she would not live beyond 6 months. Mom, being the prayer warrior she was, again turned to God for help. Mom didn't ask to be cured, just God to help her accept this, and give her strength. Mom had grandchildren arriving, and children that needed her, and she had unfinished business with God to complete. She endured 8 months of chemotherapy, and in November 1995 was declared cancer free by Dr. SanDiego, who also treated dad. Mom felt God was telling her she had come faithfully to him her whole life, but had not come full circle in her faith. She felt an overwelming need to begin attending church, and in 1998, wih her son Mike, began attending the little church on the corner of Abbie and Jefferson again. In December 1998 mom completed God's plan for her life, and at Southlawn Church of God, by Pastor Alcumbrack, she was baptized into Jesus Christ. Her new church family meant so much to her, and she faithfully attended Sunday school, worship services, and Wednesday bible studies. Her faith inspired her son Denny and his family to begin attending at Southlawn, and be baptized soon after. On Sunday, April 25, 2004 mom attended Southlawn church for the last time. Suffering and unknowing to her that her body was again racked with cancer, mom spent 3 hours getting ready and drove herself the half mile to church. After the service she was taken to the emergency room, and placed in the hospital. She died the next Sunday at St. Mary's hospital surrounded by her children. Even though we were not, mom was ready, in the hospital on Thursday of that week, while I told her that God still can work miracles for her, that if it was cancer again, he could heal her. Mom, through tears of acceptance told me, "I am old and tired, this is hard for you to understand because you are young. I just want to die now." She was always an inspiration to her children, showing them great strength, even up to death. The night before she died, mom was struggling in intensive care. She had to wear and oxygen mask to help her breath and to remove the fluid that was quicky filling her lungs, and every breath was a struggle. At about 4 AM she took the mask off and refused to wear it even to the pleas of her son Denny and daughter Nancy. She continued to say to us, "I'm done, that's enough." She was never afraid of what awaited, knowing the Lord's promises. Watching mom surrender was very hard to accept, but God had given her the time to discover His true blessings, and to complete her faith. ( Not being a very affectionate family, and one that does not verbally express feelings for one another, things were always as mom said, "it's just known." We all knew how much mom cared for us, and she knew how much we cared, it didn't need to be said. But even though I had never uttered the words to mom that I loved her, I felt an overwelming need to. About an hour before she died, as she laid unconcious, I walked over to her and kissed her on the forehead and told her that I loved her. To my surprised she made a noise of acknowledgement to me. I felt she heard me and was telling me in her way, "I know". I wanted to thank mom for all she did for me, always being there for me, even when she probably should have let me learn my own lessons. She always came out to the house when Mindy would work weekends and help with Shelby, Rena and Chloe. they brought great joy to her, and I felt helping take care of babies kept her feeling alive! And I wanted my kids to know their grandma, what a great person she was, what a kind and generous heart she had, and how she loved them so much. Mom was always there for us whenever we needed her, generous with her time and the little money she had--always willing to sacrifice. Although God has now called our mother and grandmother, our pillar of strength in the storm, surely she would tell us that we need to find this same strength and hope in whom she found it--the Almighty God who carried her through all the storms of life. One time at a bible study of the book of Job at Southlawn, mom said that her life reminded her of Job in way, and especially Job the 14th chapter.
Pastor Alcumbrack read 1st Corinthians 15.Pastor Alcumbrack's comments: Barbara will surely be missed by her family and friends. Here at Southlawn, Barbara was not just a friend, she was family. She fit into the fellowship here just as naturally as if she attended every Sunday from the time she was a child. My first contact with Barb was over the phone. She said she had been diagnosed with terminal cancer, and she wanted all her children to be baptized. I had no idea what kind of person I was talking to at the time, and I drastically underestimated her faith, and her love for the Lord. Those qualities became obvious the first time I met her. The first time she came, she was with her son, Mike, and I thought to myself, I never had anyone come with their own bodyguard!!! Mike's handshake almost brought me to my knees!! What I didn't underestimate was her love for her children, or her concern for their salvation. From her childhood Barbara believed in God. She believed Jesus Christ was the only begotten Son of God, who gave his life as an atoning sacrifice for the sins of all mankind. She knew the offer of salvation was available for everyone. She believed that Jesus Christ was returning, with salvation in his wings. And she had cultivated a relationship with God through active and faithful prayer. Denny says he can remember her almost every morning sitting on her bed reading her bible and praying. Often she would spend her time in the morning sitting on the bed for nearly a half hour with her head bowed in silent prayer. The kids remember her reading stories from he bible to them. She tried taking the kids to a couple different churches, but something just didn't fit. But when she came back to Southlawn she had found her home. And how it lifted her spirits! To see Barb was to see the fruit of God at work in her. Her love and devotion. Her humility and gentle spirit. Her love for the Word. Her prayers and faithfulness. I had the privilege to baptize her, as well as Denny and Mindy. Barb was not afraid of death. She believed wholeheartedly she was prepared for the Lord's return. She believed Jesus had appeared once to offer himself as a sacrifice for sin, and he will appear a second time to bring salvation to all those who are looking for him.Pastor Alcumbrack reads 1st Thessalonians 4:13-18 and Psalms 23:6.Congregational Song "It Is Well With My Soul."







Thursday, April 17, 2008

finishing the basement-Chloe the monkey!

Chloe loves climbing the rope!





I am currently framing in our basement. I am adding a bathroom, office, bedroom for Shelby and a family room. I plan on putting a gas fireplace in the family room which will actually be a home theater room when I'm finished. Also while I am down there working, Chloe like to practice climbing the rope I have on my weight cage. She climbs the rope so often that she has bruises on her legs!!

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Father daughter bowling.






Every year Allendale Elementary has a father daughter outing. This year we went bowling at Hudsonville lanes. Lucky for me they used them bumper rails.

Chloe Bowling

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Gold Rush Water Park Double J Ranch near Muskegon, MI.






Rena was really getting into the water cannons!!


the girls had a mid winter break from school in February. I surprised them by taking them to Gold Rush Water Park at the Double J Ranch in Rothbury, MI. north of Muskegon. We had a good time, and Mindy came up later in the day. The hottub was huge, part of it was indoors and the other part was outdoors. the drive home was horrible though. It snowed so hard that the highway was not visible at times. A 45 minute drive home ended up taking 2 hours!!


Rena's 9th Birthday.


Rena and what else...STUFFED ANIMALS!!! She has over 70 on her bed alone!!
Our waitress took Rena up in front of the restuarant and they sang happy birthday to her.
Rena and her cousin Stephanie
Rena had two parties for her birthday. On her birthday, February 25, she open presents, had cake and then when to Logan's Roadhouse for dinner with aunts, uncles and cousins on Mindy's side of the family.
Lexi, Becca, Rena and Megan

Becca, Megan, Lexi and Rena at Libby Lu.
Rena

On February 25th, Rena turned 9 years old. She celebrated her birthday by taking some friends to Libby Lu in Rivertown Crossings Mall for a club makeover. Afterwards they came back to the house had cake and Rena opened presents.

Chloe's 1st grade program February 12, 2008.

chloe in the front row with pink tights.


Chloe's teacher, Mrs. McMurray was Little Bo Peep
Chloe M. and her friend Chloe W.

Wednesday, April 2, 2008

Famous relatives.

Obama Related to Pitt, Clinton to Jolie
Wednesday, March 26, 2008
By DENISE LAVOIE, Associated Press Writer

BOSTON — This could make for one odd family reunion: Barack Obama is a distant cousin of Brad Pitt, and Hillary Rodham Clinton is related to Pitt's girlfriend, Angelina Jolie.
Researchers at the New England Historic Genealogical Society found some remarkable family connections for the three presidential candidates _ Democratic rivals Obama and Clinton, and Republican John McCain.
Clinton, who is of French-Canadian descent on her mother's side, is also a distant cousin of singers Madonna, Celine Dion and Alanis Morissette. Obama, the son of a white woman from Kansas and a black man from Kenya, can call six U.S. presidents, including George W. Bush, his cousins. McCain is a sixth cousin of first lady Laura Bush.
"You'd think with all that singing talent in the family she'd be able to carry a tune," Clinton's senior adviser Philippe Reines said. "But now it makes much more sense how she snagged a Grammy."
Clinton won for best spoken word Grammy in 1997 for "It Takes a Village." Obama also won a Grammy in that category this year for the audio version of his book, "The Audacity Of Hope: Thoughts On Reclaiming The American Dream."
Genealogist Christopher Child said that while the candidates often focus on pointing out differences between them, their ancestry shows they are more alike than they think.
"It shows that lots of different people can be related, people you wouldn't necessarily expect," Child said.
Obama has a prolific presidential lineage that features Democrats and Republicans. His distant cousins include President George W. Bush and his father, George H.W. Bush, Gerald Ford, Lyndon Johnson, Harry S. Truman and James Madison. Other Obama cousins include Vice President Dick Cheney, British Prime Minister Sir Winston Churchill and Civil War General Robert E. Lee.
Obama often jokes about his cousin Cheney at campaign appearances.
"His kinships are across the political spectrum," Child said.
Child has spent the last three years tracing the candidates' genealogy, along with senior research scholar Gary Boyd Roberts, author of the 1989 book, "Ancestors of American Presidents."
Clinton's distant cousins include beatnik author Jack Kerouac and Camilla Parker-Bowles, wife of Prince Charles of England.
McCain's ancestry was more difficult to trace because records on his relatives were not as complete as records for the families of Obama and Clinton, Child said.
Obama and President Bush are 10th cousins, once removed, linked by Samuel Hinkley of Cape Cod, who died in 1662.
Pitt and Obama are ninth cousins, linked by Edwin Hickman, who died in Virginia in 1769. Ben LaBolt, a spokesman for the Obama campaign, declined to comment on the senator's ancestry.
Clinton and Jolie are ninth cousins, twice removed, both related to Jean Cusson who died in St. Sulpice, Quebec, in 1718.
The New England Historic Genealogical Society, founded in 1845, is the oldest and largest nonprofit genealogical organization in the country.
Mayflower Passenger Richard Warren


The Mayflower II at Plimoth PlantationA 1620 Mayflower passenger, Richard Warren was a merchant of London, England who joined the Pilgrims at Southampton and became the twelfth signer of the Mayflower Compact. Although William Bradford in his "decreasings and increasings" gives Richard Warren the honorific title "Mr.", he does not mention him at all in the text of his history of Plymouth Plantation, and very little is known about him except for a few brief mentions elsewhere. Bradford says of him, "Grave Richard Warren, a man of integrity, justice and uprightness, of piety and serious religion, a useful citizen, bearing a deep share of the difficulties and troubles of the plantation."
In Mourt's Relation Edward Winslow lists ten men on an early expedition at Cape Cod, including Richard Warren, who were from London. He was "a useful instrument; bore a deep share in the difficulties and troubles of settlement," according to Nathaniel Morton in his New England's Memorial. Judging from land transactions of his widow, Elizabeth, the family appears to have been one of the wealthier ones at Plymouth. In the division of cattle in 1627 shares were given to him, to his wife Elizabeth, and to their children.
Richard Warren was probably born in England between 1580 and 1590 and died in Plymouth in 1628. He married prior to 1610 Elizabeth. Despite what has previously appeared in print (e.g. Marsh, Jowett) her maiden name is unknown. She was born about 1580 and died in Plymouth October 2, 1673 aged above 90 years. She came over in 1623 on the ship Anne with daughters Abigail, Anne, Elizabeth, Mary and Sarah. Richard and Elizabeth Warren had two sons born at Plymouth, Nathaniel, who married Sarah Walker, and Joseph, who married Priscilla Faunce.


Elizabeth and Richard Warren's seven children, with their spouses, were:

Mary (c1610- 27 March 1683) married Robert Bartlett;
Anna (c1612- aft 19 February 1676) married Thomas Little;
Sarah (c1613- 15 July 1696) married John Cooke, who, along with his father, Francis Cooke were Mayflower passengers;
Elizabeth (c1616- 9 March 1670) married Richard Church;
Abigail (c1618- 3 January 1693) married Anthony Snow;
Nathaniel (c1625-1667) married Sarah Walker; and
Joseph (1627 - 4 May 1689) married Priscilla Faunce (1634- 15 May 1707).



I have been researching my family for a number of years now and I discovered that I also descend from Richard Warren. Through my dad's side of the family, Richard Warren was my 11th great grandfather. So this makes me a 12th cousin to Johnny Carson, 11th cousin to Richard Gere, 4th cousin to General U.S. Grant, 9th cousin to Amelia Earhart, 5th cousin of Laura Ingalls Wilder, and a 5th cousin to President Franklin Delano Roosevelt. The rest of the famous descendants I am not sure what rank we are in terms of cousins. Below is how I am connected to Richard Warren and how some of these famous people are related to Richard Warren. Each line represents a generation.


Amanda Tillotson-my 3rd great grandmother
Ella Taylor-my 2nd great grandmother
Minnie Gary-my great grandmother
Mary Spaulding-my grandmother
Stewart Miller-my dad
Richard Warren-Elizabeth Walker -11th great
Nathanial Warren-Sarah Walker-10th great
Mercy Warren-Jonathan Delano-9th great
Mercy Dalano-Joseph Hatch-8th great
Amey Hatch-Amasa West-7th great
Phoebe West-Nathan Tillotson-6th great
Jerimiah Tillitson-Mary Miller-5th great
Martin Tillotson-Minerva Mallory-4th great
Amanda Tillotson-Oren Taylor-3rd great
Ella Taylor-James Gary-2nd great
Minnie Gary-Frederick Seegmiller-my great grandparents
Mary Spaulding-Herschel Miller -my grandparents
Stewart Miller-my dad
Richard Gere born in Pennsylvania
Homer Gere-Doris Tiffany
Albert Gere-Hazel Snover
George Gere-Mary Alworth
Albert Gere-Sarah Tewksbury
Jonathan Tewksbury-Lucina Fuller
Consider Fuller-Ruth Elms
Archippus Fuller-Maria Ryder
Samuel Ryder-Mary Sylvester
Joseph Sylvester-Hannah Bartlett
Joseph Bartlett-Hannah Pope
Robert Bartlett-Mary Warren
Richard Warren-Elizabeth Walker


Johnny Carson born in Iowa
Homer Carson-Ruth Hook
Christopher Carson-Ella Hardy
Marshall Carson-Emeline Kellogg
William Carson-Dorothy Nye
Jonathan Nye Jr.-Ruth Sperrin
Jonathan Nye Sr.-Mercy Ellis
Joshua Ellis-Innocent Hammond
Samuel Hammond III-Deliverance Edminster
Samuel Hammond Jr.-Priscilla Simpson
Samuel Hammond Sr.-Mary Hathaway
Arthur Hathaway-Sarah Cooke
John Cooke-Sarah Warren
Richard Warren-Elizabeth Warren

Orson Wells
Henry Wadsworth Longfellow


Amelia Earhart born in Ohio
Edward Earhart-Amelia Otis
Alfred Otis-Amelia Harres
Isaac Otis-Caroline Curtiss
Ephraim Otis III-Mary Cornwell
Ephraim Otis Jr.-Sarah Harris
Ephraim Otis Sr-Rachel Hersey
Job Otis-Mercy Little
Ephraim Little-Mary Sturtevant
Thomas Little-Anna Warren
Richard Warren Elizabeth Walker

Franklin Delano Roosevelt born in New York state

James Roosevelt-Sara Delano
Warren Delano Jr.-Carherine Lyman
Warren Delano Sr.-Deborah Church
Ephraim Delano-Elizabeth Cushman
Thomas Delano-Jean Peckham
Jonathan Delano Sr.-Mercy Warren
Nathaniel Warren-Sarah Walker
Richard Warren-Elizabeth Walker

General Hiram Ulysses Simpson Grant
Richard Warren-Elizabeth Walker
Nathanial Warren-Sarah Walker
Mercy Warren-Jonathan Delano
Jonathan Delano Jr-Amy Hatch
Susanna Delano-Noah Grant
Noah Grant Jr-Rachel Kelly
Jesse Grant-Hannah Simpson
General Hiram Ulysses Simpson Grant
Julia Childs
Mindy and my connection
I also discovered that Mindy and I share a common ancestor! We both descend from John and Mary Sperry who lived in the 1500's in Bedfordshire England. Their children came to Connecticut in the early 1600's. So that makes Mindy and I 12th cousins! John and Mary Sperry are also the ancestors of the actor, Marion Morrison aka John Wayne, his grand nephew, boxer, Tommy Morrison, and Tom Mix who was an actor and cowboy in the 1920's and 30's. John Wayne is Mindy's 8th cousin and my 10th cousin. Tom Mix is my 3rd cousin and Mindy's 9th cousin. Below is a list how we descend from the Sperrys. Each line of names represents a generation.


Marion Morrison aka John Wayne-actor, born in Iowa
Clyde Morrison-Mary Brown
Marion Morrison-Weltha Parsons
Henry Parsons-Abigail Buck
Murray Buck-Polly Thorp
William Buck-Elizabeth Murray
Eber Murray-Azuba ?
Jonathan Murray-Dorcas Way
Daniel Murray-Mary Sperry
Richard Sperry Jr. Martha Mansfield
Richard Sperry Sr.-? Dennis
John Sperry- Mary ?

Tom Mix -actor/cowboy
Elias Mix-Elizabeth Heistand
Solomon Mix-Loraham Barr
James Mix-Catherine Overturf
Amos Mix-Clarinda Barnes
Eldad Mix-Lydia Beach
Joseph Beach-Experience Beecher
John Beecher-Elizabeth Barnes
Isaac Beecher Jr.-Joanna Roberts
Isaac Beecher Sr.-Mary Sperry
John Sperry-Mary ?


Kenneth Konieczny Mindy's dad.
Joseph Konieczny-Gertrude Phillips-Mindy's grandparents
Burrel Phillips-Sarah Garrison-great
Ansel Phillips-Alvira Smith-2nd great
David Smith-Ersula Monroe-3rd great
Richard Smith-Margaret Proper-4th great
David Smith-Charlotte Sperry-5th great
Richard Sperry-? -6th great
Richard Sperry-Rebecca Baldwin-7th great
Jonathan Sperry-Mehitable Downs-8th great
Richard Sperry-Martha Mansfield-9th great
Richard Sperry-? Dennis-10 great
John Sperry-Mary ?-11th great

Some of Mindy's ancestors mentioned above.
Burrel Phillips-Mindy's great grandfather.
Margaret Alvira Smith-Mindy's 2nd great grandmother.
Richard Smith-Mindy's 4th great grandfather.


Barbara DeBruyn-my mom.
William DeBruyn-Luella Samis-my grandparents
Forrest Samis-Jennie Vincent-great
Norman Samis-Martha Hissong-2nd great
Henry Hissong-Martha Mix-3rd great
Truman Mix-Martha Chadwick-4th great
Amos Mix-Clarinda Barnes-5th great
Eldad Mix-Lydia Beach-6th great
Joseph Beach-Experience Beecher-7th great
John Beecher-Elizabeth Barnes-8th great
Isaac Beecher Jr.-Joanna Roberts-9th great
Isaac Beecher Sr.-Mary Sperry-10th great
John Sperry-Mary ?-11th great

Some of my ancestors mentioned in the above list.
Forrest Samis-great grandfather
Martha Hissong 2nd great grandmother
Martha Mix 3rd great grandmother